Truth. I tend to follow blogs about loneliness and heartache.
Truth. Yes, life does suck.
Truth. A lot of blogs I follow are created by teenagers or people in their early twenties. People I can relate to. People who like me, have had their hearts broken at one time or another. People who are just trying to survive from heartache to heartache.
Truth. I am twenty nine.
Truth. It does get better. The loneliness goes away. You meet someone and a whole new set of feelings thrusts your way. Some of those feelings suck. Some of those feelings are awesome. You live your life and that person lives yours. There will be fights. There will be tears and arguments and moments of despair and a questionable future.
Truth. There is light at the end of tunnel.
Truth. Despite all the Ben and Jerry’s nights you spend at home in your sweats, despite all your hesitations toward love and scoffing at the idea of a so called happily ever after, you fall hard. You may fall fast, you may fall slow. It really doesn’t matter, you just fall in love.
Truth. I’m getting married people! Despite my preconceived notions and my second guessing on August 27th I get my happily ever after. He asked and I said yes! And nothing has felt more right. Nothing has felt more natural.
Truth. There is hope for all of you. It may not happen now or next year. It may be ten years before your prince or princess charming comes to sweep you off your feet. You may not even realize it when it happens. But it will. It will definitely happen. Because you deserve it. Because you are amazing and deserve all the happiness that there is to offer in the world. And just because you don’t realize that doesn’t mean he or she doesn’t.
Truth. And you too will happily ever after.